There are certain questions to be asked after breaking up. What have I done wrong? Am I not enough? Am I too much ?
What's missing in us? What's wrong?
I need him back. I want him back. I can't live without him anymore. Can I just talk with him and let him explain everything ? Can he tell me where did I go wrong? Why? Is there someone between us? Why did he left me like this ? . . .
But all these questions will never heal everything. It will stuck in your mind and will turn you into pieces that will kill your happiness. The MOVING ON process is the hardest thing we could ever done and experience but we have to feel it and let those pain teach us a great lesson ayt? ...
Now, I'll be writing certain things that YOU SHOULD NEVER GET BACK TOGETHER and I hope it will open your mind to let yourself be in track again.
1. EVERYTHING HAS A REASON.
It's unforeseeable, explainable, unwanted but it's true. There's a reason why everything had happened and even if we wanted to seek for answers behind it, we can't because TIME will only tell why. It will happen, you'll see.
2. YOU ARE A FOOL IF YOU GET BACK WITH HIM.
You have already seen his worst and you still want him back? Considering that he will hurt you once, it will happen like a cycle and he will get used of doing that to you though. Do you want that to happen? Do you want to be miserable now and in the future? Think twice.
3. IT WILL WORSEN THE SITUATION.
The more you beg to see him, to get back with him, it will put you in hell. Oh my! Imagine yourself that way. You're forcing to happen those uncontrollable things and it will complicate everything. Trust me. Just let it go and let it be.
4. HE ALREADY LEFT YOU.
So, why chase him? He did in purpose and he want that even if you didn't want to. We cannot control others to love us back like the way we love them right? That's reality! Take it or leave.
5. YOU WILL BE STRESSED OUT IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE.
Do you want to get big eyebugs in your eyes? Do you want to cry for your whole life just for a guy? Do you want to stuck for a person who'll never fight for you? Do you want to get stressed, so beg if you want to. In the long run, you'll laugh it out.
6. IT'S A LIFE LESSON.
The most beautiful part of our lives is falling in love, at least we learn to get hurt and to overcome it. When you know how to love yourself, and you value yourself, you will let go because it's not HIM. You can feel that. ( WOMEN HAVE INSTINCT-- use it! )
7. IT IS MEANT TO HAPPEN.
Why's and reasons are what we seek but in reality it is meant to happen why you shouldn't get back because the best is yet to come.
8. IT WILL MAKE YOU STRONGER.
When someone broke our heart, we are tormented and we weep so long but when tears fell off, we are stronger and we realized that it's worth the pain.
9. SOMEONE DESERVED YOU --- (THE BEST)
That's okay, if someone left you, don't pity yourself because you will be having those best and unexpected things to happen in the near future if you just wait and mend yourself.
10. GOD WANTS TO OPEN YOUR EYES.
It's true. We might feel that God doesn't love us anymore because He let us feel these pains and it seems like He's not there to help you up but He is there, watching you, crying with you, mourning with you and He feels what you feel. Talk with Him passionately and you will realize that He wants to open your eyes because He prepared a beautiful path for you. This happens now but it's temporary, everything is not lasting so live it up ayt? Trust in Him and His timing is perfect for us. You will be happy in His hands and don't blame Him with your life. That's your choice. Face the consequences, don't be bitter, and grow from those experiences. So, need not worry because our life is counted though, you have your own time and own moment. Just wait and nothing to rush. Be strong and be happy.
Love will just come in your way and be excited about it, like what I did. ♥
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Terina ♥
